Lately, I have been asked quite frequently, why it seems that boys don't really show an interest in them, or pursue them really. Despite the variance of all the circumstances, I couldn't help but notice that essentially I ended up telling each person the same thing. So, I figured the world might also benefit from my philosophy!
Here it goes. The dating philosophy for the teenage girl:
You are in high school. Some will say that they are the best time of their lives! Others will say that it was full of amazing firsts and good memories. But MOST will say that High School is where we begin to truly develop our essence and who we are. So then, why would you want anything to get in the way of the development of the YOU that will last for hopefully 70plus years to come. Now is the time to use dating as a tool to better ourselves! One of the biggest components of who we are is what we see in other people. Through dating lots of guys we can come to know what we really appreciate and look for in people. Unfortunately most of us will be able to also clearly see what we DON'T like in others. All things which will make our ultimate choice in a HUSBAND all the easier and confident (cause i mean i don't think any of us want any doubts in that area)!
Enjoy High School which ever way suits you! If you think dating is to hard and to much effort then maybe that's something that should wait until later! But if dating is something that is fun to you (which i think deep down inside everyone loves) then do it! But date different people! Take the time to organize the dates, and ask the people! I highly recommend doubles or triples or even quads!
Boys are here for us to one day marry! So use the time now to figure out what you like in them! But be patient with them cause they might (okay definitely will) need some pushing and HINTING!
With love,
Harmony!
Jenna! I love you advice! thanks for all of your help! Your advice is priceless!! :)
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